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Emotional infidelity is WORSE for you than physical infidelity.

12 Friday Feb 2021

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That doesn’t give you a license to cheat on your spouse, but know this: Besides hurting your partner, cheaters suffer depression, anxiety, shame, and guilt. And according to a study in the journal Personality and Social Psychology, emotional infidelity causes a level of distress one-third greater than physical infidelity. But an emotional AND physical affair was by far the most damaging.

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Do you cry at weddings and sappy movies?

30 Wednesday Sep 2020

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Maybe even commercials that tug on our heartstrings? You’re healthy. The journal Psychological Science says people who cry in social situations are actually better at managing their emotions! That’s because crying when you’re touched by something – or even when you’re overwhelmed by happiness – is a way of processing and coping with your emotions. And when we let ourselves get emotional, we get back in control of our feelings faster.

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Get more energy with this breathing technique!

22 Monday Jun 2020

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Get ready to be more energized and alert in 2 minutes with a simple breathing technique. It comes from Ayurvedic medicine, a type of holistic, whole-body healing developed 3,000 years ago in India. And it’s based on the idea health and wellness is physical, mental AND emotional.

So what’s the Ayurvedic breathing technique?  Sit or stand comfortably, and use a finger to press your LEFT nostril shut. Then, breathe in slowly through your RIGHT nostril and exhale slowly. That activates nerve endings in the right nostril linked to alertness. And in 2 minutes you’ll have renewed focus and energy.

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What do these things have in common?

29 Tuesday Oct 2019

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Roses, lavender, birch trees, sweet basil, tomatoes, and coriander? They contain a compound called linalool, which produces a scent that lowers stress hormones. It’s found in over 200 species of plants and produce. And scents can calm us down because they bypass the rational, thinking part of our brain and go straight to the emotional center.

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Are you feeling “sweepy?”

26 Tuesday Mar 2019

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That’s when you’re sleepy and weepy, and get overly emotional. And there’s a reason for it. Because when we’re sleep-deprived, activity increases in the brain area that produces emotion. Plus, when we’re tired, our ability to control our emotions is weaker.

So if you cry at commercials when you’re tired – or burst into tears when someone gives you side-eye, that’s why. You’re sweepy.

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Here are two reasons to do handstands every day:

29 Tuesday Jan 2019

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First: Emotional stability. The physical stability needed for a handstand can help you feel more emotionally calm and centered. Because our body can dictate our emotional state.

Handstands also build physical strength. It takes a lot of muscle to hold yourself up, so it’s a great workout for your arms, core and back.

If you can’t do them on your own, ask someone to assist you until you can do it alone.

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If you’re feeling lonely…

30 Monday Apr 2018

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…get a nice hot mug of tea or coffee. Yale University social psychologist Dr. John Bargh says holding something warm stimulates the brain region that processes physical sensations – and social trust. So holding a warm beverage makes us emotionally warmer, more trusting, and helps us feel more connected to others. Which is important – because new research from the University of Chicago shows that loneliness can alter immune cells in a way that increases the risk of illness – and raises our risk of an early death by 14%.

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Do you use Facebook & Twitter? Here’s a helpful tip:

19 Thursday Jan 2017

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If you want an emotional boost from Facebook or Twitter, check your feed on a bright, sunny day. More negative posts pop up on rainy days and at night, because that’s when we tend to feel more emotional and down in the dumps.

If you’d like to boost your health, it’s time to tweak your attitude.

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Why? Because studies show that having healthy emotional habits also improves your physical health.

•Avoid the blame game. Adults who point fingers or get vindictive when they’re angry are 31% more likely to develop heart problems. According to the study at the Columbia University Medical School, adults who discuss their anger directly and try to work things out have no increase in anger-related heart disease.

•Be a “glass is half-full” person. A new study from the University of Kentucky in Lexington found that optimism helps your body fight off cold and flu viruses. The immune systems of volunteers responded more aggressively to germs injected into their skin on days when they felt more hopeful…and less so when their moods were more pessimistic.

Is your best friend going through a difficult time?

26 Monday Oct 2015

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You may be stressed because your best friend is stressed. According to the New England Journal of Medicine, emotions are contagious. And if your best friend is going through a hard time and stressing out about it, you’ll absorb those feelings. It happens because our brain is hardwired to empathize with others, and to imitate the emotions around us.

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